Let’s imagine you’re traveling between two cities.
Let’s imagine your starting point city is Las Vegas.
Let’s imagine your ending destination is Los Angeles.
(My apologies for putting you into either of these crazy places).
Now, are you sure you can drive a car between those two cities?
Now imagine you start driving west and you get as far as Barstow.
You stop and say, “This sucks. This is too hard. This feels impossible. I’ll never make it to L.A.”
Can you imagine saying that?
No. You know the road, that it takes around five long, hot hours to get there.
Now, think with me.
How many times do we have a goal or desire in mind and when we taste a setback or disappointment, or a long series of zero results from massive efforts, we stop and say “This sucks. This is too hard. This feels impossible. I’ll never get_____________.”
It’s like getting to Barstow and turning back.
What? You say, “I can see the roadmap. The time and distance are well-know. But my goals are not so well-drawn and tested.”
But how do we know that we have given up to despair just before we reach our desire or goal?
What if our answer was one more phone call or e-mail away?
What if the Universe’s wish was our command?
What if all we had to do was keep moving forward, driving to Los Angeles, or keep talking, listening, communicating calling, writing, sending to our wants and dreams?
Does it feel good to stop and despair, to give up, to feel that way?
What if those low points of despair keep taking us back to start on our journeys?
My recommendation? Do what feels good and create your own reality. Tell yourself you’re gonna make it, you’re gonna get there.
Because if you say you won’t make it, you’re right. And if you say you will, make it. you’re right.